Monday, February 15, 2010

The Thing with Love...

I've never been in love. People will either be happy and encourage me to do greater things in life or people will pity me for being NBSB.

It was never a big deal for me. I have to admit; there are times when I want to know what it feels like to have your hands held by someone who loves you very much. I want to know what it feels like to dress up for dates whatever the occasion is. But then I think of how irked I am when I think of accepting flowers (Never liked flowers, really), talking about the future of our relationship (I'll be sick if I do) and think about what's good for the both of us than thinking of myself.

I'm very selfish(but not in a way that I won't share my Piattos). I see it this way if there are times I want to experience being in love: I won't have to share a small piece of cake. I'll get to enjoy it in a way that it may be small, but it's all mine.

Okay...I'm not an open person to love, but it all goes down by how much hurt I've seen couples--married or not--experience. I hate seeing women who give everything to their man and never save some for themselves. I know I won't be like that. People say to me that I shouldn't say that since I've never been deeply in love. But there's an obvious lesson from the situation and I choose to follow it.

I'm young and not allowed to date. Probably I'll get a different perspective if I DO date. But then, this is how I think of love

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